The
Holy Eucharist is not a common meal, but the Holy Body and Precious Blood of
our Lord Jesus Christ. How, then, should we prepare to receive this sacred
gift? What does the Church teach us about approaching the Holy Mysteries, and
what should our hearts be like when we receive them? Let us explore the
preparation, repentance, humility, and reverence required to partake of the
heavenly King’s banquet (ግብዣ).
What
Preparation Is Required to Participate in the Eucharist?
Even
when a person is invited to an earthly king’s banquet (ግብዣ), he prepares himself as much as he
can. How much more, then, should a Christian prepare to partake of the Holy
Body and Precious Blood of our Lord Jesus Christ at the banquet of the heavenly
King?
Matthew
22:11 says, “ንጉሡም
የተቀመጡትን ለማየት በገባ ጊዜ በዚያ የሰርግ ልብስ ያለበሰ አንድ ሰው አየና፦ ወዳጄ ሆይ፥ የሰርግ ልብስ ሳትለብስ እንዴት ወደዚህ ገባህ? አለው እርሱም ዝም አለ።”
We
should therefore prepare ourselves carefully, so that we are ready to stand
before the heavenly King.
When
preparing to receive Holy Communion, we should guard all our bodily senses so
that sinful thoughts do not enter our hearts. We should wash our bodies and, as
much as possible, wear clean, pure (white) clothing (Revelation 6:11). We
should eat a light meal on the eve of Communion and then abstain from food for
18 hours. Married couples should abstain from sexual intercourse for three days
before and two days after Communion.
Men
should be free from night emissions (ሕልመ ሌሊት / ዝንየት)
on the eve of receiving Holy Communion, while women should not receive
Communion during menstruation or any other bleeding or discharge. Anyone with a
bleeding or flowing wound should likewise refrain from receiving Communion.
After childbirth, women should complete 40 days for a boy and 80 days for a
girl. Finally, all those receiving Communion should be present from the
beginning of the Divine Liturgy on the day they receive Communion.
Why
Was the Priest’s Declaration, “I Am Innocent of Your Sins—እኔ ከበደላችሁ ንጹሕ ነኝ!” Necessary??
In
the Divine Liturgy, the priest formally warns those approaching Holy Communion,
saying:
“ንጹሕ የሆነ ከቁርባኑ ይቀበል፤ ንጹሕ ያልሆነ ግን አይቀበል፤ ለሰይጣንና ለመልእክተኞቹ በተዘጋጀው በመለኮት እሳት እንዳይቃጠል፤ በልቡናው ቂምን የያዘ ልዩ አሳብም ያለበት ቢኖር አይቅረብ፤ እጄን ከአፍአዊ ደም ንጹሕ እንዳደረግሁ እንዲሁም ከሁላችሁ ደም ንጹሕ ነኝ፡፡ ደፍራችሁ ወደ ክርስቶስ ሥጋና ደም ብትቀርቡ ከእርሱ ለመቀበላችሁ መተላለፍ የለብኝም በደላችሁ በራሳችሁ ይመለሳል እንጂ፡፡ በንጽሕና ሆናችሁ ባትቀርቡ እኔ ከበደላችሁ ንጹሕ ነኝ”, and he washes his hands.
The
deacon then continues, saying:
“ይህን የቄሱን ቃል ያቃለለ ወይም የሳቀና የተነጋገረ ወይም በቤተክርስቲያን በክፋት የቆመ ቢኖር ጌታችን ኢየሱስ ክርስቶስን እንዳሳዘነው በእርሱም እንደተነሣሣ ይወቅ ይረዳ ስለበረከት ፈንታ መርገምን ስለኃጢአት ሥርየት ፈንታ ገሃነመ እሳትን ከእግዚአብሔር ዘንድ ይቀበላል”.
This
proclamation is not intended to frighten us, keep us away from the Holy Body
and Precious Blood, or make us mere spectators (ተመልካቾች). Rather, it reminds us to repent, prepare ourselves
according to the guidance of our spiritual father, and approach the Holy
Mysteries with purity and reverence.
If we
receive the Holy Body and Precious Blood of our Lord without first cleansing
ourselves from sin through repentance, they will bring judgment upon us. However,
the enemy, the devil, can distort this warning in our minds, causing us to see
the priest’s proclamation as a threat: “You are not worthy to receive the
Body.”
Its
true message is the opposite: repent, seek guidance from your spiritual father,
and then draw near to Christ’s Holy Body and Precious Blood.
What
Is Expected of Us When Receiving Holy Communion?
The
Holy Eucharist is a mystery through which our weak flesh is strengthened by the
grace of God. Our bodies, weakened by sin, must be cleansed through repentance
so that we may receive the Holy Body and Precious Blood of Christ. Such
repentance must be accompanied by deep humility, like that of the Roman
centurion (መቶ
አለቃ).
When
our Lord Jesus Christ entered Capernaum (ቅፍርናሆም), a centurion ((መቶ አለቃ) came to Him, pleading for the healing of his servant.
When our Lord told him He would come and heal his servant, the centurion
humbly replied:
“ጌታ ሆይ፥ በቤቴ ጣራ ከታች ልትገባ አይገባኝም፤ ነገር ግን ቃል ብቻ ተናገር፥ ብላቴናዬም ይፈወሳል።” (Matt. 8:8)
Likewise,
when we understand that through the Holy Eucharist we receive the glorious Body
and Blood of Christ, we should not approach Christ with pride, like the scribes
(ጸሐፍት) and Pharisees (ፈሪሳዊያን), but with humility, following the example of the
Roman centurion. We should humble ourselves and pray:
“አቤቱ! አንተ በእኔ በኃጢአት በረከሰ ሰውነት ልታድር አይገባህም፣ እንደ ቸርነትህ አንጻኝ፣ ቀድሰኝ።”
To
help us prepare ourselves in this way, our fathers, inspired by the Holy
Spirit, have prepared prayers that lift our hearts above earthly thoughts and
faithfully preserve the teachings of the Church as we approach the Holy
Eucharist. The faithful should first recite the prayer appointed for before
Communion.
The
main priest offers the Body of Christ in his hand, while the assistant priest
offers the Blood to the priests using the holy spoon (ዕርፈ መስቀል). The deacon offers the Blood to the faithful using
the same holy spoon (ዕርፈ
መስቀል). The assistant priest does not offer the Body, nor
does a subdeacon offer the Blood.
Priests,
children, virgins, laypeople, and other faithful receive the Holy Eucharist
according to the order established by the Church.
The
order of receiving Holy Communion is as follows: in the sanctuary (ቤተ መቅደስ), archbishops, bishops, monks, priests, and deacons
receive Communion first. In the
Qiddist
(ቅድስት), infants, boys, girls, adult men, and adult women
receive Communion in that order.
Immediately
after receiving the Holy Eucharist, the faithful are given holy water. They
then recite the prayer appointed for after Communion.
Conclusion:
Receiving
the Holy Eucharist calls us to sincere repentance, deep humility, and reverence
for the sacred Mysteries. We must neither approach carelessly nor allow fear to
keep us away from Christ, but prepare ourselves through repentance and the
guidance of our spiritual fathers. May we always approach the Holy Body and
Precious Blood of our Lord with purified hearts, trusting in His mercy and
seeking the transformation of our lives.
